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  • Book Report 2025

    My reading this year was suggest my core interests were becoming more effective, understanding how the world might end, and deciding how to behave politely while it does.

    I spent the year learning how to build wealth, lead teams, persuade humans, raise a family, confront evil, survive apocalypse, and behave decently while the universe collapses. It was a productive year. Slightly bleak, but productive.

    The Algebra of Wealth – Scott Galloway

    Galloway lays out a practical framework for building long-term wealth, comparing it to an “algebra” of factors: focus (choosing the right career path), stoicism (living below your means), time (investing early and consistently), and diversification (spreading risk). The book mixes financial advice with life lessons, stressing that wealth is about freedom, not just money.

    The Coming Wave – Mustafa Suleyman

    A bit wishy-washy, co-founder of DeepMind, Suleyman warns about the coming “wave” of technologies like AI, biotech, and synthetic biology. These advances will transform industries but also pose huge risks, from surveillance to autonomous weapons. He argues for strong guardrails, governance, and global cooperation before innovation outruns our ability to manage it.

    Unreasonable Hospitality – Will Guidara

    Guidara, former co-owner of Eleven Madison Park, shares how making guests feel seen and valued transformed his restaurant into one of the world’s best. His philosophy is that going “above and beyond”, in ways that are personal, creative, and sometimes outrageous, is what creates unforgettable experiences in any business.

    A Full Life: Reflections at Ninety – Jimmy Carter

    The 39th U.S. president looks back on his remarkable journey, from a Georgia farm boy to president, humanitarian, and Nobel Peace Prize winner. He reflects on politics, faith, family, and global service, offering candid stories and lessons from nearly a century of public and private life.

    The Three-Body Problem – Cixin Liu

    After watching Season One, twice, I did it again; read the book. Then the other two. I’ll never learn. This sci-fi epic begins with scientists uncovering a secret first-contact scenario with an alien civilization, the Trisolarans, whose unstable planet drives them to seek a new home. Blending physics, history, and politics, Liu explores humanity’s response to an overwhelming extraterrestrial threat.

    The Dark Forest – Cixin Liu

    Best of the three. The sequel introduces the “dark forest” theory: the universe is a dangerous place where civilizations must remain hidden to survive. Humanity, aware of the approaching Trisolaran fleet, struggles with internal conflict and survival strategy. The novel examines trust, deterrence, and existential risk on a cosmic scale.

    Death’s End – Cixin Liu

    The trilogy’s finale expands to a breathtaking scope across space and time. Humanity and the Trisolarans face higher-level cosmic civilizations, leading to a universe governed by terrifying laws of survival. The book blends hard science, philosophy, and awe-inspiring imagination to close one of sci-fi’s most ambitious sagas.

    A Long Walk to Water – Linda Sue Park

    My son’s summer reading. Based on true events, this novel alternates between two stories in Sudan: Salva, a boy displaced by war in the 1980s, and Nya, a girl in 2008 who spends her days fetching water. Their journeys intersect in a moving tale about survival, resilience, and the life-changing power of clean water.

    The Energy Bus – Jon Gordon

    A fable-style business book about George, a man whose life and work are falling apart until he meets a bus driver and passengers who teach him 10 rules for infusing life with positivity, vision, and teamwork. The story emphasizes that energy, especially optimism, drives success in both business and personal life.

    The Art of Winning – Bill Belichick

    Most love or hate Bill. He’s made some questionable decisions, many of late, but this is still a worth while read. Belichick distills his coaching philosophy into lessons on preparation, discipline, and execution. The book emphasizes process over outcomes: mastering fundamentals, eliminating mistakes, and making situational decisions under pressure. While rooted in football, the insights translate to leadership, team building, and sustained excellence in any high-performance environment.

    The Secret of Secrets – Dan Brown

    I’m a huge fan. This one’s familiar. A fast-paced thriller following Robert Langdon as he uncovers a mystery tied to hidden knowledge, cutting-edge science, and ancient symbolism. As with Brown’s other novels, the story blends real historical references with speculative ideas, exploring themes of power, secrecy, and humanity’s future.

    To Sell Is Human – Daniel H. Pink

    Pink argues that selling is no longer limited to salespeople. So very true. Everyone sells ideas, influence, and themselves daily. He reframes selling as a human skill centered on empathy, clarity, and service rather than manipulation. The book offers research-backed techniques for persuasion, communication, and motivation in modern, non-traditional selling contexts. 

    Notes on Being a Man – Scott Galloway

    As the father of a young man, this hit. Galloway offers candid reflections on masculinity, responsibility, relationships, work, and self-discipline. Drawing from personal experience and social trends, he challenges cultural narratives around success and fulfillment, particularly for young men. The tone is direct and occasionally blunt, focusing on accountability, purpose, and building a stable life over chasing status.

    Graphic Novels

    Saga (Issues 1–70) – Brian K. Vaughan & Fiona Staples

    An epic space-fantasy following two lovers from opposing sides of a brutal intergalactic war and their child, Hazel. The series blends science fiction, fantasy, and family drama, exploring love, identity, violence, and the cost of conflict. Known for its emotional depth, moral complexity, and fearless storytelling, Saga is as much about parenting and relationships as it is about war.

    Y: The Last Man (Issues 1–60) – Brian K. Vaughan & Pia Guerra

    After a mysterious event kills every male mammal except one man, Yorick Brown, and his monkey, the world is forced to rebuild society without men. The series examines gender, power, grief, and survival through political, social, and personal lenses. It’s less about why the apocalypse happened and more about how humanity adapts afterward.

    Outcast (Issues 1–48) – Robert Kirkman & Paul Azaceta

    A dark horror series centered on Kyle Barnes, a man plagued by demonic possession in his family and hometown. As he investigates the nature of possession, the story shifts from personal trauma to broader questions of faith, evil, and free will. The tone is bleak, psychological, and slow-burning rather than action-driven.

    We Called Them Giants – Kieron Gillen & Stephanie Hans

    A standalone, visually striking sci-fi story about children living alone in a world where mysterious, towering “giants” appear after humanity’s collapse. The book explores loneliness, memory, and growing up in the aftermath of extinction. It’s atmospheric and emotional, relying more on mood and art than exposition.

    Worldtr33 (Issues 1–16) – James Tynion IV & Fernando Blanco

    A techno-horror series about a secret, corrupted version of the internet that connects to horrifying alternate realities. When this hidden network begins leaking into the real world, it threatens global collapse. The story blends conspiracy, body horror, and digital-age anxiety, examining what happens when technology opens doors humanity should never have unlocked.

    In conclusion

    I sought wisdom, discipline, and meaning, found some answers, many warnings, and confirmation that the universe is vast, indifferent, and best faced prepared, curious, and reasonably well-mannered.

    Owen

  • Book Report 2024

    Book Report 2024

    Here we have 10 Non-Fiction, 12 Fiction, and 4 Comic Book series this year. Comics have come a very long way recently. I was finally able to start and finish Tolkien. Too much singing for me but he wasn’t bothered by that. I also started a few more Non-Fiction books that I’ll almost certainly finish but those will go on the 2025 list.

    1. The Fellowship of the Ring – J.R.R. Tolkien; A bunch of misfits—including a short guy with hairy feet, team up to chuck a dangerous ring into a volcano. Chaos, epic battles, and snacks ensue.
    2. Siddhartha – Hermann Hesse; Siddhartha skips normal life to find enlightenment. He tries riches, love, and being a hermit before realizing life is the teacher.
    3. Black Elk – Joe Jackson; Black Elk was a Lakota holy man who juggled visions, buffalo, and history’s unfair punches while trying to keep his people’s spirit alive.
    4. The Bear – Andrew Krivak; A father and daughter rough it in a relatively peaceful apocalypse.
    5. Wool – Hugh Howey; First book in the Silo Series. Once I watched the Apple TV Season 1 I was in. It’s also fun to read about life in a silo. Either way, it isn’t all it’s cracked up to be, especially when stepping outside means instant death. One person dares to ask if maybe it’s all a lie.
    6. Shift – Hugh Howey; Silo Book 2 tells us how humans ended up living in giant underground bunkers in the first place. This prequel explains all the politics, bad decisions, and shady planning.
    7. Dust – Hugh Howey; Silo Book 3. The underground survivors finally figure out the big picture and it’s messy. Do they keep hiding or face the world above.
    8. Sand – Hugh Howey; Technically a net new series, still being written. I’m not convinced it won’t converge at some point. At any rate, this book tells us just how tough life can be when you live in a desert buried under more desert. Treasure hunters dig for old tech, secrets, and a way out of this sandy mess.
    9. Dark Matter – Blake Crouch; Another Apple TV series. What if your life went off the rails, but in every possible way? A regular guy hops between wild alternate realities to get his family and his sanity back.
    10. Mindset – Carol Dweck; Turns out your brain is like a muscle. You can train it to get stronger, smarter, and way less whiny about failure.
    11. Children of Dune – Frank Herbert; Back to fiction. Paul Atreides’ kids are stuck dealing with their dad’s galactic mess, trying to save Arrakis, while sandworms, politics, and crazy visions keep things spicy.
    12. The Lost Year – Katherine Marsh; Historically based fiction. My son got to read this over the summer for 6th grade so I joined him. This is not a light story. A kid digs into a family secret tied to the Holodomor (look it up), proving that history class is way cooler when it’s personal and full of mystery.
    13. Fourth Wing – Rebecca Yarros; Dragons, death matches, and drama. Our heroin Violet is trying not to get roasted, literally or figuratively, while proving she’s tougher than she looks.
    14. Iron Flame – Rebecca Yarros; Violet’s back and things are somehow even more chaotic: wars, betrayal, dragons. Basically, everything’s on fire, including her love life. I’ll be ready when Book 3 comes out.
    15. Lincoln on Leadership – Donald T. Phillips; Is Don the world’s bigger Lincoln fanboy? Yes. Probably. Abe Lincoln: part president, part management guru. Learn leadership tips from the guy who handled a civil war and still had time for dad jokes.
    16. From Strength to Strength – Arthur C. Brooks; Getting older isn’t a crisis—it’s a rebrand! Brooks shows how to embrace life’s second half with purpose, wisdom, and way less stress.
    17. 11 Rings – Phil Jackson; Second time reading this one. Basketball’s former Zen master spills the tea on winning 11 championships, wrangling egos, and the triangle offense.
    18. Becoming – Michelle Obama; From South Side kid to FLOTUS, Michelle  shares her inspiring journey.
    19. Co-Intelligence – Ethan Mollick; A must read for those dragging their feet on Generative AI. This one can sometimes feel like fiction but is good at explaining how humans and LLM can team up to solve problems and get stuff done.
    20. The Creative Act – Rick Rubin; Creativity isn’t magic, it’s a vibe. Lean into the process, trust your gut, and make cool stuff.
    21. Never Finished – David Goggins; The author is back to offer more no-nonsense advice: stop whining, start grinding, and keep pushing past your limits because excuses are for quitters. (I skipped his first book. Too many F-bombs was a distraction I was unable to overcome. To be fair, if you said “pizza” every 10th word, I’d also be out). 
    22. Saga (Issues 1–66) – Brian K. Vaughan and Fiona Staples; A wild, intergalactic soap opera about love, war, and raising a kid while dodging bounty hunters, winged warriors, and a TV-headed prince. Epic chaos guaranteed.
    23. The Magic Order (Issues 1–6) – Mark Millar; Wizards in trench coats secretly keep the world safe while battling dark magic, dysfunctional families, and assassins with killer hats. Think Harry Potter meets The Sopranos.
    24. Outcast (Issues 1–48) – Robert Kirkman; Demons, possessions, and one guy’s cursed knack for expelling them. A dark, broody tale about battling evil, fixing broken families, and avoiding casual exorcism chat.
    25. The Chosen One (Trilogy) – Mark Millar; A reluctant hero with a messiah complex takes on destiny, shady villains, and existential crises in a biblical-style showdown for humanity. Divine drama ensues.
    26. Living with a SEAL – Jesse Itzler; The author recounts his month with a Navy SEAL who flips his life upside down with grueling workouts, bizarre habits, and life lessons, all delivered with hilarity, grit, and the occasional absurdity. Not revealed at the time, turns out the SEAL is Goggins.

    Owen

  • Book Report 2022

    I loved my summertime trips to the library as a kid. There wasn’t an Encyclopedia Brown book in the Franklin, Tennessee library that I hadn’t read at least once, some twice. Reading for pleasure much less personal growth wasn’t something I did much beyond those early summers. There are some books I read for school that come to mind. Where the Red Ferm Grows. And Then There Were None. Red Badge of Courage. Reading just wasn’t a priority beyond Sports Illustrated. Even less so in college, all textbooks and report research.

    After college I spent time as a consultant and traveling made trips to the bookstore in a strange town a highlight. Reading books for both pleasure and personal growth became a hobby.

    When my youngest was born in October 2016 I took four months of leave to bond. I have extremely fond memories of sitting on the couch in the living room holding Hanna and reading for hours. I cleared many books, including Patrick Rothfuss’s “The Name of the Wind” (662 pages) and “The Wise Man’s Fear” (994 pager).

    I might have read a dozen other fiction book in print since. Why? The magic of audio books! I can “read” when I’m in the car, doing yardwork, or exercising. The time really adds up. Audible is great. Libby is life changing. My goal is to balance my reading by going from fiction to non-fiction and repeat. I can read a few fiction books all in a row, but I start to get anxious when I’ve ready too many non-fiction books without a break in between.

    From January to December

    1. Start With Why – Simon Sinek
    2. The Checklist Manifesto – Atul Gawande
    3. Effortless – Greg McKeown
    4. Thinking Fast and Slow – Daniel Kahneman
    5. The Island of Sea Women – Lisa See
    6. Sacred Hoops – Phil Jackson
    7. The Martian – Andy Weir
    8. Crazy Rich Asians – Kevin Kwan
    9. More Than A Game – Phil Jackson
    10. Sapiens – Yuval Noah Harari
    11. Project Hail Mary – Andy Weir
    12. The Guest List – Gillian Flynn
    13. Everything is F*cked – Mark Manson
    14. Wrong Place Wrong Time – Gillian McAllister
    15. Artemis – Andy Weir
    16. Daily Rituals – Mason Currey
    17. Rogue Lawyer – John Grisham
    18. The Reckoning – John Grisham
    19. Wired to Eat – Robb Wolf
    20. The Racketeer – John Grisham
    21. Ansani Boys – Neil Gaiman
    22. Darth Plagueis – James Luceno
    23. The Boys of Biloxi – John Grisham

    I didn’t include books I started and didn’t finish. I also didn’t include any Blinkist books summaries, which is magical for so many reasons. I’ve had a free account for years and in 2022 finally splurged and paid for the premium membership. Lightening in a bottle.

    Owen

  • Monster Trucks

    Saturday 12 January 2018

    Monster Jam came to Charlotte’s Spectrum Center this weekend. Henrik and I got to go. We even got pit passes. This was our first big time event like this with so many people. We both had a blast. His attention span is 10X what it was just a year ago.

    Henrik’s soaking it all in

    Max D

    MM Dalmation

    We’re Here!

    It was a long line

    Krysten Anderson driver of Grave Digger

    I’m So Cool

    Grave Digger second only to Bigfoot

    Giant Tire Noise Guards
  • In the Year 2017

    I don’t do New Year resolutions. Not anymore. I make decisions, and those are best made and kept to when the spirit moves you.

    I do however find virtue in reflection and expressing gratitude. Here it goes.

    The year started out on work leave with Hanna Elaine, born October 21, 2016. With Linda on point with the baby, Henrik and I had lots of bonding time. Threenager moments are a real thing but my memories will gloss over those.

    Work was a whirlwind. Third new boss and big boss in about as many years. A progression at work and an upcoming move from our home of 12 years in Maricopa (Phoenix), Arizona to Charlotte, North Carolina. Equal parts terrifying and exciting. Career-wise it is the answer to my question of “so what’s next”.

    There were a few trips with one kid or the other to the emergency room. Terrifying in the moment, and for some time after, but someday to be looked back on in pure thanks, the kids survived. Two new food allergies for Henrik, and a very sad heart wrenching delay in visiting Grandparents and family in Sweden while we confirmed Henrik is safe to fly.

    Published my Dad’s book and shared it here. Planning a team reunion, hopefully in 2018. Thanks Dad.

    Mom visited and we met Chris for the first time. No wonder Mom is so happy! Crystelle and Sol also visited and met Hanna. Family!

    Joanie and Meghan visited for Halloween. Great visit! Nobody does a holiday like the Cicchi’s. Oh yeah, we were over at their place in California for Easter too. Did I mention the Cicchi kids are amazing human beings?

    Henrik discovered a love for team sports, playing and practicing tee ball, and solo sport riding his new big boy bicycle. Hanna is learning more and more new words each day and on the verge of walking by herself. Both kids are learning so much so fast.

    Thank you to my Crossfit Maricopa family for being awesome all year. Scott and Kelly Bradley and their entire coaching staff are legit.

    Change scientifically speaking is a natural law. Therefore by law, and by the seat of our pants into 2018 we go!

    Owen, Linda, Henrik and Hanna